Wednesday 11 November 2015

9 THINGS I NEED TO STOP DOING TO BE SUCCESSFUL

So I decided to share this special list of a friend who really wants to impact lives also. Kindly enjoy it!!!MY aim is to encourage as many that can be.

AUTHOR: CHIDINMA 


Stop expecting imperfection.
               Perfection is not a stage but the process of striving. The ability to want better and greater is perfection.

Stop negative self- dialog
               You don’t need to continuously push yourself for past mistakes, because it is counterproductive. Just move on and put heads straight.


 Stop saying yes when am ment to say no.  
                Who remembers that primary school song*

 Stop ignoring my goals.
                  Good things only happen to people who makes an effort. A part of making an effort is setting goals for oneself. Energy doesn't lie.

 Stop focusing on just today.
                 The future is now, start working towards it.

Stop isolating myself.
                      Learn to incorporate the people you love into your goals and hobbies. Social isolation can kill people.      

Stop comparing oneself to others.
                     The only person you can compete with today is the person you were yesterday. Only admire and try to learn from successful people how they were able to achieve success in that area you seem to have weak points. Be confident in yourself enough not to compete with others has it might harm your self-esteem.

 Stop living in the past.
                          Don't define yourself by who you were, or waste your time wallowing in self-pity of the mistakes you made in the past, instead strive to work on yourself and learn from your past also work towards being a better person..>>> Remember, failure is feedback<<<<<

 Stop moving with visionless people.
                          Successful people don't move with negative and dishonest people. Bad communication corrupt good manners which means choose your friends.

*success comes out from acceptance of your skill coupled with determination also not forgetting the place of God.*


                        









Monday 26 October 2015

GET READY

 Author: BAKARE SANDRA







Whenever I look around and I see young (both teens and youths especially the female gender) minds with so much energy,  channeling their activeness in thing that might make their future stagger……… I feel an instant pain in my heart........This has prompted me to write this article. 
            
         Many a times life is not as smooth as we have imagined,                             there is a whole lot of struggle out there. Today’s swagger                          might be tomorrows stagger. The world needs so many good                     people but it’s just too funny that there are so many people                        who doesn’t want to help others.

Get ready to be different. Do it without thinking of what might be said of you!!!!!!!  

          One faithful day I asked myself “can people’s opinion about me pay my school fees??” trust me you know the answer….But the moment you decide in your very own self to live a fulfilled, purposeful, brave and a cheerful life. Not forgetting to love life; that very moment change has come upon you.  

            Unfortunately a lot of young girls haven't had a glimpse of how beautiful they are and how big what’s inside of them is, instead they prefer to settle for the crumbles of life.Simply because they want to flow with the trend.


Get ready to plan. If you fail to plan then you are planning to fail. I tell you DON’T BE SCARED YOU ARE A QUEEN!!!!  QUEENS are courageous. You can pursue your dreams and still have your dignity intact without doing anything ugly.
              
            First you must acknowledge what you want and what you are better with.

I can say energy doesn’t lie…. “on a special day I told myself I need to stand up for what’s right and start planning my future also to break away from the growing pattern of things that has been holding so many teenagers down”……..


Get ready to do the act of kindness. Be nice to people, it is a characteristic of the magnanimous woman. Learn to have a positive attitude towards people by going out of your comfort zones. It might be stressful but it is directly proportional to the ability to entertain the uncomfortable.

In all GET READY for life.

Sunday 4 October 2015

GRACE

Growing up, I decided to take life a little faster,
Met some friends, who wanted to foster,
I concurred being so eager,
I never knew I was headed to disaster.


I enjoyed having the fun,
Immorality engulfed my days,
No alarm for  future days.

Alas, now I want more,
God's way get to me no more,
My inner self aches, searched for the cause,
My quest void of answer .

I turned to my closest friend,
Please help, please help am feeling too depressed,
He replied : am sorry but we are the same and I have nothing more,
My spirit ached Tears, unavailing .

There is a hollowness in my spirit senses,
I feel as if I’m living  under false pretenses,
Am depressed help me.

Alas, reminisce gazed at me,
I remembered I had a creator,
 He is my last hope,
I cried and begged for mercy,
Once I was foolish, and sin ruled my heart,
Causing my footsteps from God to depart.

Alas he dropped in my mind,
Romans 3; 23- 24  for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
 and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.
Grace found me!!!!!!

Halelujaah Grace is changing my disgrace,
Grace has given me high grade,
Grace has raised me,
Grace has made me great.



…………..its turning around for me……

Tuesday 22 September 2015

STOP WISHING START ACTING



an inspirational video.

Monday 21 September 2015


STOP WISHING 
START ACTIN

Inspirational video done by me.