Wednesday 11 November 2015

9 THINGS I NEED TO STOP DOING TO BE SUCCESSFUL

So I decided to share this special list of a friend who really wants to impact lives also. Kindly enjoy it!!!MY aim is to encourage as many that can be.

AUTHOR: CHIDINMA 


Stop expecting imperfection.
               Perfection is not a stage but the process of striving. The ability to want better and greater is perfection.

Stop negative self- dialog
               You don’t need to continuously push yourself for past mistakes, because it is counterproductive. Just move on and put heads straight.


 Stop saying yes when am ment to say no.  
                Who remembers that primary school song*

 Stop ignoring my goals.
                  Good things only happen to people who makes an effort. A part of making an effort is setting goals for oneself. Energy doesn't lie.

 Stop focusing on just today.
                 The future is now, start working towards it.

Stop isolating myself.
                      Learn to incorporate the people you love into your goals and hobbies. Social isolation can kill people.      

Stop comparing oneself to others.
                     The only person you can compete with today is the person you were yesterday. Only admire and try to learn from successful people how they were able to achieve success in that area you seem to have weak points. Be confident in yourself enough not to compete with others has it might harm your self-esteem.

 Stop living in the past.
                          Don't define yourself by who you were, or waste your time wallowing in self-pity of the mistakes you made in the past, instead strive to work on yourself and learn from your past also work towards being a better person..>>> Remember, failure is feedback<<<<<

 Stop moving with visionless people.
                          Successful people don't move with negative and dishonest people. Bad communication corrupt good manners which means choose your friends.

*success comes out from acceptance of your skill coupled with determination also not forgetting the place of God.*